Do not cease to strive when amidst defeat because triumph cannot exist in the absence of failure.
Perhaps failure is not what makes you despondent but the discovery that your destination may be contrary to that which you have envisioned. Dear, do not be disheartened since victories are no less potent and beautiful in their intricate diversities. ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ Photograph by Noel_Bauza Photo enhanced by C.A. Nicholas
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Feeling romantic love is a miraculous experience and should be embraced yet never base your relationship upon it. Relying on the sensation of love will inebriate you so you'll have an impossible time discerning whether you and your crush are compatible with one another regardless of being attracted to each other's appearance, personality, or both.
The feeling of romantic passion, or infatuation, will also be forever non-constant. Therefore, if you build your relationship on the foundation of a good feeling then it is a guarantee that you will eventually grow bored and even annoyed with one another's presence. Though it's possible that remedying your connection will not be too late. Relationships should be based on love itself. Emotion is only an aspect of love. Love is a decision to nurture, celebrate, and be patient with another no matter how one feels. When two build their relationship upon true love then it will be nigh invincible. Oh, and the beautiful reality about sustaining each other on true love is that the emotion of romance will be regained no matter how many times it fleets away. ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ Photograph by Ed_Gar Photo slightly edited by C.A. Nicholas "...We must choose between what is right and what is easy."
- J.K. Rowling; Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire. ⭐⭐⭐ "There is no one who is inherently good though every individual is naturally sacred. Every one is intrinsically selfish in some way. Even those whom do good innately expect good to be done unto them even if not right away. We dole our cruelty unto others directly through deeds such as humiliation, indirectly through actions such as self-harm, or by a solution of the two. Yet forgiveness is at every moment crying out to be accessed via authentic remorse for the inhumanity we have done to others while forgiveness also yearns to be accepted for ourselves. Most people intrinsically love some others yet all are meant to go against their natures by unconditionally loving every soul including one's own." - Charlie Avinash Nicholas ⭐⭐⭐ "In the Law there are many commands, such as, 'Be faithful in marriage. Do not murder. Do not steal. Do not want what belongs to others.' But all of these are summed up in the command that says, 'Love others as much as you love yourself.' Love is kind and patient, never jealous, boastful, proud, or rude. Love isn’t selfish or quick tempered. It doesn’t keep a record of wrongs that others do. Love rejoices in the truth, but not in evil. Love is always supportive, loyal, hopeful, and trusting." - Romans 13:9 and 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 Do you and I judge one another other by our temptations or the decisions to give in to those fancies? Do you and I shame each other for one another's struggles in an attempt to deflect from our own insecurities? Or do you and I assist each other because we are not jealous of the other due to our cheap self-esteems? Do you and I love one another without conditions?
I have something essential to tell you.
Don't try to win acceptance from others. Acceptance which must be hard fought for is acceptance which must be easily lost. So refrain from shattering your soul and forcing the pieces where they are not meant to go; just so you can be esteemed by those who project their own insecurities onto the mural of your esteem. Do keep the floodgates to your love raised for all as you continue on your journey of who you were created to be. I'm awaiting the day when...
Mental illness sufferers aren't shamed for their afflictions. People of color aren't cast underneath due to darker hues. People of non-European ethnicities are no longer evicted from decency. People who behave as morality personified stop damning anyone who isn't cisgender and heterosexual. Women are no longer treated as inferior by those whose vulnerability hangs from down under. |
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